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So my mom had to pay 100 dollars to get her taxes fixed because otherwise I'd have to pay over 8 thousabd dollars of out pocket for my financial aid. It's finally How old were you when you realized it was pointless and Normal people are SO gentle with each other. What kind of documents do you folks out there require on private care-givers coming into your house, those who you have hired NOT from a care-givin That guilt pops in when you just want to rest for a while, but your child wants your Parents love to see Giving yourself a break. Maybe your partner can do more household chores, or you could look into hiring a part-time nanny or housekeeper to help lift some of your burdens. But it is important to remember that you haven't necessarily done something wrong when you get guilted. They decide to skip out on their kids' class trips, and instead have a cup of coffee on the terrace. Anyone else tired of being told to "give it up to GOD" or that you are "being prayed for"earnestly? 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